Love Would You Rather Questions

Romance, dating, and the dilemmas every couple eventually argues about. These love would you rather questions are perfect for date night — answer honestly, then compare.

75 questions · ranked by how the crowd voted

1. Marry your soulmate but argue oftenorMarry a good match and rarely fight

   48% pick the first · 52% pick the second

2. One great love that ends too soonorA lifetime of easy companionship

   44% pick the first · 56% pick the second

3. Know your partner's every thoughtorKeep a little mystery forever

   33% pick the first · 67% pick the second

4. Fall in love at first sightorGrow into love slowly

   41% pick the first · 59% pick the second

5. Have an ex back in your lifeorNever think about them again

   29% pick the first · 71% pick the second

6. Date someone hilarious but messyorDate someone tidy but serious

   54% pick the first · 46% pick the second

7. A partner who is your best friendorA partner who keeps you on your toes

   63% pick the first · 37% pick the second

8. Always say "I love you" firstorAlways hear it first

   46% pick the first · 54% pick the second

9. A fairytale wedding, ordinary marriageorA blissful marriage, tiny wedding

   27% pick the first · 73% pick the second

10. A partner who travels constantlyorA partner who never leaves home

    45% pick the first · 55% pick the second

11. A soulmate you see once a yearorA comfortable partner you see daily

    31% pick the first · 69% pick the second

12. Reunite with a lost loveorMeet someone completely new

    43% pick the first · 57% pick the second

13. Never argue but never feel passionorArgue sometimes but feel truly alive

    58% pick the first · 42% pick the second

14. A partner who is a wonderful cookorA partner who is a wonderful listener

    34% pick the first · 66% pick the second

15. Butterflies foreverorComplete ease forever

    47% pick the first · 53% pick the second

16. Single and freeorCommitted and content

    42% pick the first · 58% pick the second

17. Know you'll find love in exactly a yearorNever know if you will at all

    66% pick the first · 34% pick the second

18. Read your partner's messages anytimeorThey can read yours anytime

    44% pick the first · 56% pick the second

19. Marry for love with little moneyorMarry for money with little love

    74% pick the first · 26% pick the second

20. Date someone gorgeous but dullorDate an equal who fascinates you

    22% pick the first · 78% pick the second

21. A whirlwind romance that burns outorA slow burn that lasts for years

    31% pick the first · 69% pick the second

22. See your partner's family every weekendorNever meet them at all

    52% pick the first · 48% pick the second

23. A partner who constantly surprises youorA partner who is utterly reliable

    46% pick the first · 54% pick the second

24. Fall for your best friendorKeep the friendship safe

    49% pick the first · 51% pick the second

25. One perfect first kiss on repeatorA different thrilling one each time

    43% pick the first · 57% pick the second

26. Be loved loudly in publicorBe loved quietly in private

    38% pick the first · 62% pick the second

27. A partner who finishes your sentencesorA partner who always surprises you

    47% pick the first · 53% pick the second

28. A sweet love note every dayorA long, deep talk every week

    45% pick the first · 55% pick the second

29. A love everyone envies but feels ordinaryorA love that feels like magic but looks plain

    28% pick the first · 72% pick the second

30. Always forgive quicklyorNever need to forgive at all

    51% pick the first · 49% pick the second

31. Date someone who sings off-key all dayorDate someone who narrates every movie

    48% pick the first · 52% pick the second

32. A partner who steals the blanketsorA partner who hogs the remote

    51% pick the first · 49% pick the second

33. Match with your celebrity crushorMatch with your childhood crush

    61% pick the first · 39% pick the second

34. A partner who's always late but adorableorA partner who's always early but grumpy

    67% pick the first · 33% pick the second

35. Fall for someone who loves your bad jokesorFall for someone who loves your burnt cooking

    54% pick the first · 46% pick the second

36. Meet your partner on an apporMeet your partner by pure chance

    34% pick the first · 66% pick the second

37. A partner who texts you all dayorA partner who calls once and means it

    44% pick the first · 56% pick the second

38. Slow dance in the kitchen every nightorA fancy date once a month

    64% pick the first · 36% pick the second

39. A partner who plans every detailorA partner who's happily spontaneous

    42% pick the first · 58% pick the second

40. Share every hobby with your partnerorKeep your own separate passions

    39% pick the first · 61% pick the second

41. A partner who remembers every anniversaryorA partner who forgets but shows up daily

    29% pick the first · 71% pick the second

42. Date within your friend grouporDate a total stranger

    47% pick the first · 53% pick the second

43. A partner who writes you poemsorA partner who fixes anything you break

    45% pick the first · 55% pick the second

44. A partner who cries at films with youorA partner who laughs you through anything

    52% pick the first · 48% pick the second

45. Be pursued relentlesslyorDo the pursuing yourself

    56% pick the first · 44% pick the second

46. A partner who surprises you with tripsorA partner who's saving for your future

    49% pick the first · 51% pick the second

47. Keep your relationship offlineorShare it with the whole world

    72% pick the first · 28% pick the second

48. A partner who remembers your coffee orderorA partner who remembers your dreams

    26% pick the first · 74% pick the second

49. A partner who dances badly with joyorA partner who's graceful but reserved

    59% pick the first · 41% pick the second

50. A love that heals old woundsorA love that never hurts at all

    68% pick the first · 32% pick the second

51. Marry your first loveorKeep searching for the one

    33% pick the first · 67% pick the second

52. A partner who challenges your beliefsorA partner who always agrees

    58% pick the first · 42% pick the second

53. Propose in a grand gestureorPropose in a quiet moment

    31% pick the first · 69% pick the second

54. A love with no secretsorA love with a little privacy

    55% pick the first · 45% pick the second

55. Be someone's first loveorBe someone's last love

    30% pick the first · 70% pick the second

56. Feel deeply understoodorFeel wildly desired

    65% pick the first · 35% pick the second

57. A partner who keeps the spark aliveorA partner who keeps the peace

    50% pick the first · 50% pick the second

58. Fall in love young and unsureorFall in love older and certain

    41% pick the first · 59% pick the second

59. A partner who loves your flawsorA partner who inspires you to fix them

    57% pick the first · 43% pick the second

60. Grow old together in one homeorRoam the world with no fixed home

    70% pick the first · 30% pick the second

61. A partner who shares your faithorA partner who shares your ambitions

    46% pick the first · 54% pick the second

62. A partner who drops everything for youorA partner who chases their own dreams

    53% pick the first · 47% pick the second

63. Win back a love you lostorProtect the love you have now

    24% pick the first · 76% pick the second

64. A partner who knows what to sayorA partner who holds you in silence

    43% pick the first · 57% pick the second

65. Have off-the-charts chemistryorHave perfectly aligned values

    36% pick the first · 64% pick the second

66. A soulmate with a difficult familyorA kind partner with a warm family

    27% pick the first · 73% pick the second

67. A love that inspires your best workorA love that lets you finally rest

    60% pick the first · 40% pick the second

68. A marriage that feels like homeorA romance that feels like fireworks

    62% pick the first · 38% pick the second

69. Date the person your friends adoreorDate the person only you understand

    52% pick the first · 48% pick the second

70. A partner who never lies but can be bluntorA partner who's gentle but omits things

    71% pick the first · 29% pick the second

71. Renew your vows every yearorTrust the first vow forever

    38% pick the first · 62% pick the second

72. A partner who's always calmorA partner who's passionate and fiery

    55% pick the first · 45% pick the second

73. Fall for a hopeless romanticorFall for a grounded realist

    44% pick the first · 56% pick the second

74. Have one soulmate guaranteedorHave many good loves over a lifetime

    63% pick the first · 37% pick the second

75. A love full of grand adventuresorA love full of quiet mornings

    47% pick the first · 53% pick the second

Explore more would you rather questions